We haven't had a `MonitorUpdateInProgress` check in
`Channel::is_live` for some time.

In the coming commits we'll move to async `ChannelMonitorUpdate`
application, which means we'll want to generate a
`ChannelMonitorUpdate` (including a new counterparty commitment
transaction) before we actually send it to our counterparty. To do
that today we'd have to actually sign the commitment transaction
by calling the signer, then drop it, apply the
`ChannelMonitorUpdate`, then re-sign the commitment transaction to
send it to our peer.

In this commit we instead split `send_commitment_no_status_check`
and `send_commitment_no_state_update` into `build_` and `send_`
variants, allowing us to generate new counterparty commitment
transactions without actually signing, then build them for sending,
with signatures, later.

When a `ChannelMonitor` update completes, we may need to take some
further action, such as exposing an `Event` to the user initiating
another `ChannelMonitor` update, etc. This commit adds the basic
structure to track such actions and serialize them as required.

Note that while this does introduce a new map which is written as
an even value which users cannot opt out of, the map is only filled
in when users use the asynchronous `ChannelMonitor` updates. As
these are still considered beta, breaking downgrades for such users
is considered acceptable here.

In order to support fully async `ChannelMonitor` updating, we need
to ensure that we can replay `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s if we shut
down after persisting a `ChannelManager` but without completing a
`ChannelMonitorUpdate` persistence. In order to support that we
(obviously) have to store the `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s in the
`ChannelManager`, which we do here inside the `Channel`.

We do so now because in the coming commits we will start using the
async persistence flow for all updates, and while we won't yet
support fully async monitor updating it's nice to get some of the
foundational structures in place now.

Over the next few commits, this macro will replace the
`handle_monitor_update_res` macro. It takes a different approach -
instead of receiving the message(s) that need to be re-sent after
the monitor update completes and pushing them back into the
channel, we'll not get the messages from the channel at all until
we're ready for them.

This will unify our message sending into only actually fetching +
sending messages in the common monitor-update-completed code,
rather than both there *and* in the functions that call `Channel`
when new messages are originated.

In a previous PR, we added a `MonitorUpdateCompletionAction` enum
which described actions to take after a `ChannelMonitorUpdate`
persistence completes. At the time, it was only used to execute
actions in-line, however in the next commit we'll start (correctly)
leaving the existing actions until after monitor updates complete.

The TODO mentioned in `handle_monitor_update_res` about how we
might forget about HTLCs in case of permanent monitor update
failure still applies in spite of all our changes. If a channel is
drop'd in general, monitor-pending updates may be lost if the
monitor update failed to persist.

This was always the case, and is ultimately the general form of the
the specific TODO, so we simply leave comments there

We currently have two codepaths on most channel update functions -
most methods return a set of messages to send a peer iff the
`ChannelMonitorUpdate` succeeds, but if it does not we push the
messages back into the `Channel` and then pull them back out when
the `ChannelMonitorUpdate` completes and send them then. This adds
a substantial amount of complexity in very critical codepaths.

Instead, here we swap all our channel update codepaths to
immediately set the channel-update-required flag and only return a
`ChannelMonitorUpdate` to the `ChannelManager`. Internally in the
`Channel` we store a queue of `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s, which will
become critical in future work to surface pending
`ChannelMonitorUpdate`s to users at startup so they can complete.

This leaves some redundant work in `Channel` to be cleaned up
later. Specifically, we still generate the messages which we will
now ignore and regenerate later.

This commit updates the `ChannelMonitorUpdate` pipeline across all
the places we generate them.

In the previous commit, we moved all our `ChannelMonitorUpdate`
pipelines to use a new async path via the
`handle_new_monitor_update` macro. This avoids having two message
sending pathways and simply sends messages in the "monitor update
completed" flow, which is shared between sync and async monitor
updates.

Here we reuse the new macro for handling `funding_signed` messages
when doing an initial `ChannelMonitor` persistence. This provides
a similar benefit, simplifying the code a trivial amount, but
importantly allows us to fully remove the original
`handle_monitor_update_res` macro.

Building on the previous commits, this finishes our transition to
doing all message-sending in the monitor update completion
pipeline, unifying our immediate- and async- `ChannelMonitor`
update and persistence flows.

The `Channel::get_shutdown` docs are very clear - if the channel
jumps to `Shutdown` as a result of not being funded when we go to
initiate shutdown we should not generate a `ChannelMonitorUpdate`
as there's no need to bother with the shutdown script - we're
force-closing anyway.

However, this wasn't actually implemented, potentially causing a
spurious monitor update for no reason.